Hi, I have been dating a women for 3 years. on and off again. I am not infactuated with her, I dont desire to hold her most of the time. Sex I usually am not attracted to her unless she moves first. I do find her a lot of fun, we are like best friends. The spark is not there. I dont want to settle. I am 50 in great shape still have my hair, and spend some time on looking good. I am not that physically attracted to her. She has said "no Buddy system" meaning intimate relationship or noithing. I hate to loose her and am also afraid there is nothing better out there. What do you suggest?