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Problem wiht the past
I've never been so in love in my life since now with my fiance. We are totally in love. The only problem is that he has a problem with my past relationships. I only had 1 boyfriend and 1 more sexual partner. I was a virgin till 19. He has a problem with other guys being with me or touching me in any sort of way. He has had a lot more experiences than me. When this matters come to his mind he mistreats me, treat me like I a low class, that Im nasty, says Im stupid for taking bad decisions, even cant touch me. I cant seem to understand why he acts like this. And it hurts me. I cant beleive that the person that tells you everyday he want to spend the rest of his life with you can be the person who has judge you the most and called you more names in your life.
Re: Problem wiht the past
(Reply to:
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Cristina Rexach
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From:
so mark
Date: Wed, 11 Jan 2012 18:14:28 +0100
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Hi Cristina,
from my side i'll only suggest you that have words with your boyfriend that you would seriously like to speak with him about this problem which is being barrier between good relationship with you and him. use sweet words which he could understand
just try to make him understand that your past is your past which nobody can change and you have done nothing wrong.
and at this point of time you love him so much, you are not cheating him you will not do that because you love him and you are doing nothing wrong.
Try to explain him that this misunderstanding could be barrier in good relationship if he is planning for the rest of his life.
you need a good moment to make him understand it. may be wait for few days and try that you don't get anything which makes him angry.
and when everything is ok, you can tell him about these all.
still wait for advice from other people also, may be you could have better idea how to explain or solve it. I wish you good luck for your better and best relationship.
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