i kno my case is a bit serious,im 20 and he is 52. We have been seeing each other since january 2009 and believe me we have never had sex, well he tried but i just won't let him. His wife lives in a different town & his kids are overseas at school so he stays on his own. I still stay with my parents but he has been renting a flat for me for about 6mnths now. He has since bought a bed, fridge, coffee table for our home & is always asking me to buy the kitchenware but im not sure if i really want to do this. I love him so much and i kno he does the same. My problem is he has been asking to marry me since 7 or so months ago! Wat do i do coz i thin about what people n my parents wil say, i feel its wrong but i'd luv to stay with him. Help