A widower & a new relationship at some point.

Hello,

I have a question pertaining to the loss of my fiance'. I recently lost her to a car accident a little over a month ago. While I am not ready to start dating yet, I know the time will come. When I think about it, the only person I can se myself with is one of her sisters who is in the process of getting a divorce. We get along very well, but I'm not sure if these are normal feelings? Is it abnormal to want to move on with her sister? I would like to think that I am not using her as a replacement for my loss. I guenuinly have strong feelings for her...that border on love. Is this unhealthy? Should I forget it? Can you just give me some proffesional advice?

Lost

Om din fästmös syster känner detsamma för dig kan jag inte se något hinder för er att bli lyckliga tillsammans. Finns det personer i er omgivning som skulle ta illa upp? Var i så fall diskret i början tills den värsta sorgen har lagt sig. Börja med att erbjuda din tröst och vänskap.